You're Adorable As You Are

“It is better to be adored for being who you truly are, 

than adored for who you are not.” ~ Cha Jones

We all have a desire to be adored, but it is only when we are authentic in our actions that someone can truly find us adorable. It is easy to act like something we are not, but when we do so, others cannot see us for who we really are. When this happens we keep our true self hidden from the world.

Let people see you for who you are. You don’t have to be something that you are not for the sake of being accepted. If people accept you when you become someone other than your authentic self, they have accepted a lie. Your truth is much better told than hidden within a lie. You are beautiful, talented, and intelligent as you are, not being who or what someone else wants you to be. If you hide who you are you deny the world from knowing one of God’s greatest creations ~you.

It is easy to think that others won’t understand your situation or circumstances, but to be untruthful for the sake of pleasing others makes you a coward. It not only makes you a coward, but you give your true power away trying to fit into place that is not big enough to accept you in the first place. We all want to be accepted, but allow others to accept you based on who you truly are and not on a false idea of who they think you are. You are powerful in truth. You are beautiful in your own skin. You are amazing when you make others acknowledge you for who you are. You are adorable because you have allowed others to adore you in your own glory. That’s Gurl Knowledge!!

Cha Jones, 09/28/2010